JESUS’ WAY OF PRAYING, Posturing the Soul

 

Pentecost VIII, Proper 12C, July 25, 2004

The Rev’d Canon Charles Roper

visiting St. Martin in the Fields, Atlanta

 

The study of words is fascinating and wonderfully enlightening. That certain sounds combined can transfer thought from my brain to your brain is miraculous. And, the wonder of words is that they are not flat as they may appear printed on paper or a computer screen; rather, they are deep and dynamic, and they can convey life if plumbed to their depths.  That is particularly true with the words Jesus uses.  Words are fascinating.

 

Our fascinating word for today, taken from the appointed Gospel, is the word, “prayer,” which carries a variety of meanings, some of which are quite incredible.  Some years ago the word prayer was used by a well-known television evangelist who claimed that, by praying, he had changed the course of a hurricane. That claim was made by Pat Robertson during an unsuccessful campaign to become president of the United States.  It seems that a hurricane was headed toward the Virginia coastline where his ministry had its headquarters. So according to him, he prayed and God diverted the storm, and his facilities were spared. He shouted, “Praise the Lord!” Mercy, me.  The difficulty with that kind of thinking should be immediately obvious. One thinks of all the devastation that was wreaked by that hurricane, the lives that were lost and the property that was destroyed. And one wonders how many of those victims were also earnestly praying to be spared such devastation. Robinson never stopped his fundamentalist literalism long enough to realize that if his prayer was truly effective then he caused their deaths and their property damage in preference to his own.  Pat Robinson the chosen? and the others just incidental?  I doubt it!!!  His use of prayer reveals that he never understood prayer.

 

This morning, I want us to take prayer seriously and to learn that in the depth of the words of the Lord’s Prayer there is the revelation of a posturing of the soul that allows us to walk as Jesus walked.  I have never had a serious discussion with anyone about prayer that someone did not say, “Well, prayer is a way of life.”  I believe that and will make my case for that today.  If we are to take prayer seriously, we must dispel from our minds the notion that it is some kind of magic like Robinson taunted. It is not a short cut, whereby we can get what we want. A Russian Orthodox proverb says: “When most people pray, they are asking that two and two not equal four.” That may be what is asked, but that is not what is received. Whatever prayer may be, it is not an Aladdin's lamp which, if properly rubbed, will grant us our wishes.  It is not some alchemic Merlin magic you can divine by playing Walt Disney. And, it is not a trade off with God: “I’ll do this if you do that.” So, what is the true meaning of prayer? If it is not just another way of getting the things you want, what is prayer and how do you do it?

 

Prayer obviously played a vital role in the life of our Lord Jesus and he teaches us what prayer is. He prayed frequently, earnestly, and sometimes at great length. Looking deeply one sees he used the relationship of prayer to reinforce the posture of his soul committed to do his Father’s will.  Prayer for him was relationship with the Father. His disciples observed what the words of prayer meant to Jesus and began to want the same experience for themselves. It would be later that they discovered his life was a prayer. But, one day one of them said to him, "Lord, teach us to pray."

 

Jesus answered that request by giving them a model prayer, the words we know as the Lord’s Prayer, words in which lay his way of life.; then, he backed that up by a brief story about a man who needed bread at mid-night; and finally he ended his lesson by urging his disciples to make earnest business of praying by keeping on asking, seeking and knocking. All the while using words to help them learn how to posture their souls to do the Father’s will. 

 

One thing we can observe by paying attention to how and when Jesus prayed is to learn that he prayed out of a profound sense of need. Jesus prayed, not because he saw it as a religious obligation or proper form of liturgy, but because he felt a need for it. He needed to talk with his Father.  Check out the posture of his soul. His disciples asked him to teach them how to pray because they too had a need. They felt a need to be like Jesus. Then, Jesus illustrates need with a story.  The man in Jesus’ story went to his neighbor at midnight for only one reason. He needed bread and had no other way to get it. He was needy and persistent. Nothing else will sustain that kind of quest.

 

In varying degrees, everyone here can relate to this aspect of prayer. Sooner or later, we all become aware of our need. One of our basic human traits is that every soul on earth is needy.  Some of us admit this and others do not.  Some try to avoid it and others take advantage of it.  But, let that not distract us. Underneath all our behaviors when held to account for our lives, we all come up needy. Just the day-to-day business of living is a formidable challenge. And somewhere along the way, life makes demands of us all that we feel inadequate to meet in our own strength. It may be a crushing grief or an incurable disease. It may be the ever-increasing responsibilities that cope with the passing years. It may be discouragement over the tragic state of the world. Whatever it is and whenever it may come, we should recognize it and accept it. We may not even have the words for our need but Blessed Paul assures us that, “…the Spirit leads us in prayer by the groanings of our hearts.” A deep sense of profound need is the starting place of the true meaning of prayer.

 

Need is, however, only the starting place of prayer, not the dwelling place of prayer. To recognize our personal inadequacies and profound needs is one thing. To stop there is another. If we would know the true meaning of prayer, we must rove from the recognition of our need to where Jesus leads us.  And Jesus leads us to three postures of soul which are characteristic of a life lived as prayer as he lived. They are Faith, Patience and Community.

 

1. Faith. Jesus uses words to lead us into the soul posture of affirming our faith. The model prayer that Jesus gave his disciples begins with the word "Father". That one word alone is a great prayer. It affirms our faith in God. True prayer requires a soul posture of faith. It asserts that we are not alone in a vast and empty universe. God is here, and he is near enough that we can talk with him. It affirms our faith in the nature of God. He is strong and wise, kind and loving, involved and caring.  He already know what we need and is more than willing to give it to us, if our souls are postured to receive it. Picture the best father that you could imagine. God is like that, only better. We are his children. Despite all of our faults and failures, we are members of his family. Jesus has seen to it that we are blood relatives with God the Father.  He is our Dad.  In the South we say that blood is thicker that barbeque sauce.

 

Prayer, you see, is not so much asking God for things as it is affirming our faith in him. Jesus taught us to call God, “Abba, Father.” A friend of mine from the Escole Biblique in Jerusalem told me this story.  He said he never understood Jesus’ use of the word, Abba, for God, then one day in the Jerusalem market place where there were hundreds of tables piled high with fruits and vegetables and hand made crafts of every kind.  He noticed a little boy who among the tables had lost sight of his father and thought he was lost.  The child became frantic,  tears weld up  in his eyes and suddenly and quite naturally had cried out, “Abba, Abba, Abba!”  Then, says my friend, “I understood that Jesus wanted me to receive God as my Daddy.”  That is how Jesus prayed. He put his faith at the center of life and held it there until other things were crowded off the edge. True prayer is always something other than begging. It is more affirmation. The psalmist said: "Though I walk amid distress, you preserve me... Your right hand saves me... Your kindness, 0 Lord, endures forever." That is prayer. It feeds faith and starves fear. It clings to hope and releases despair. It affirms those principles of faith and hope that are the bedrock of great religion. It is the foundation of Jesus’ Way, the soul posture of Faith.  It is in the words of the “Our Father...”

 

2. For Jesus true prayer also requires a soul posture of patience. Personal prayer as well as corporate prayer always needs to be seen in the context of God’s eternal plan. Prayer looks to the future and expectantly awaits the fulfillment of God's sweeping plan for his Creation. Some prayers can be answered or denied in a matter of an instant, a few hours, even days or years.   But many of the greatest prayers cannot be so answered. Jesus taught his disciples to pray for the coming of God's kingdom on earth as it is in Heaven. And to behave in the certainty of its coming. That kind of prayer does not anticipate or demand an immediate result. It is scaled to the long term. It is handed down from one generation to the next. But, if you have eyes to see and ears to hear, as Jesus yearned for us to have, then you can see and hear that whatever happens God is in there somewhere, having his will be done that his Kingdom may be on earth as it is in heaven. Jesus assures us He will get us home in spite of our selves. If we trust that, then ours is to have a soul posture of patience. It is in the words of the “Our Father...”

 

3.) True prayer is not just about me and mine, though personal needs are important. Jesus’ prayer is about posturing the soul to relate to the world as a community, which I am calling, a community of the whole. Life is concerned with me and mine but also with something more than me and mine. A striking feature of   Jesus’ prayer is its liberal use of plural pronouns. "OUR Father… Give US each day OUR daily bread... Forgive US OUR sins, for WE are to forgive all who do US wrong." To pray as Jesus prayed requires that we regard all people as our brothers and sisters. Whatever their station or rank, their race or creed, his prayer tells us we must accept them as we ourselves are accepted of God. Jesus in Gethsemane teaches us:  “Father, not my will but thine be done.” For one thing that means Jesus was willing to cooperate with the Father’s understanding of the good for the whole. God’s wider and eternal purpose takes precedence over our personal desire.  It must be obvious that God the Father will have his creatures be sisters and brothers and care for one another even if it kills him.  This social dimension, a community of the whole, is the third posture of the soul in the words of Jesus’ prayer. It is in the “Our Father...”

 

In Jesus’ words about how to pray he teaches us the postures of the soul, which include, the affirmation of faith, the exercise of patience, and the acceptance of all people as our brothers and sisters, a community of the whole. We see this in his life. His life was lived in these prayer postures so that everything he did was the will of the Father. 

 

For Jesus the word was prayer

Jesus undoubtedly prayed the words of his prayer regularly to posture his soul in relationship with Abba, Father. Everything he did was in faith, with patience, and in due consideration of the community of the whole.

We know Jesus gave his life to bring the Kingdom of God on earth as it is in Heaven, doing the Father’s will.

For Jesus, that finally came to crucifixion and resurrection.

 

So, how does the word, prayed to posture the soul in relationship with Abba, Father, look in our life? What does the Way of Jesus, look like when we do it?  It can be seen in a little story with which I will close.

 

BILL

 

His name was Bill.  He had wild hair, wore a tee-shirt with holes in it, jeans with no knees, and no shoes, barefoot.  This was literally Bill’s whole wardrobe for his entire four years of college.  He was brilliant, private and very, very bright.  He became a Christian while attending one of those campus gatherings for Jesus.

 

Across the street from the campus there stood a well-appointed and properly dressed Episcopal Church.  They had said forever that they wanted to develop a ministry to students, but they were not sure how to do it. 

 

One day Bill decides to go to that church.  He walks in, no shoes, no knees in his jeans, wearing his hokey tee shirt, and his hair wild.  The service has already started and so Bill starts down the aisle looking for a seat. 

 

The church is packed and he cannot find a seat.  By now, people are beginning to look uncomfortable and no one is saying a thing, they are just looking at Bill and one another. As Bill gets closer and closer to the pulpit where the priest is beginning his sermon, he realizes there are no seats.  So, in typical fashion, he just squats down on the carpet right in the front of the church and everybody.  This is behavior one might expect in a college gathering, but here at “St. What’s it?” this had never happened before.  People are visibly up tight.  Tension hangs like a heavy cloud over the congregation.

 

At this time, the priest becomes aware of what is happening and notices an usher from the back of the church beginning to make his way toward Bill.  In his eighties, a silver-gray haired usher in a three-piece suit, with a gold pocket watch in his vest beside his red carnation, this highly revered old timer, veteran of wars and vestries in the parish, elegant and dignified, takes his cane and starts walking toward Bill.  Everyone begins to say to themselves,  “Now, we will get this dealt with so we can proceed undisturbed.”    Everybody thinks,  “We cannot blame the Admiral for what he has to do.”

 

Finally, the usher reaches Bill.  The church is electric and silent with expectation and wondering what will happen when the young man is confronted by this old usher.  All eyes are focused on the situation; no one even breathes.  The priest cannot continue to preach his sermon until this situation is dealt with and the old usher does what he has to do.

 

Then, they see this elderly gentleman drop his cane to the floor and with great difficulty lower himself to the floor to sit next to Bill.  He extends his hand to welcome the boy and they just sit there together.  Bill is not alone anymore.  Bill is not rejected; Bill is accepted, even welcomed!

 

Everyone chokes with that mysterious crack in the heart that rises when goodness prevails. They all know that the old man is right, and they smile having seen the resurrected Jesus suddenly appear and do for the rejected what humankind alone does not do.  The impossible happens. Jesus just appears and says, “Come unto me all you who are burdened and I will give you rest.”

 

The priest finally regains his self-control and says,  “The words I am about to preach, you will never remember; but the words you have just seen, you will remember forever.”