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STEPHEN MINISTRY LOOKING FOR A FEW GOOD PEOPLE September 2000

 

Stephen Ministry at St. Martin’s is looking for a few more good women  and men.  Interviews for the Class of 2001 begin next week and there are a few slots we would like still to fill.  The 50 hours of required training begin October 10 and culminate in Commissioning on April 29, 2001.  The new Stephen Ministers then begin their supervised one-on-one ministry for at least another year and a half, joining the eleven Ministers currently serving in our parish.

Stephen Ministries were founded by Kenneth C. Haugk, a Lutheran Pastor, in 1975, in response to three needs: (1) the church staff was overworked, (2) people who needed quality care were not receiving it, and (3) church members who were seeking meaningful ways to act out their Christian calling were frustrated.  In response to these needs he began to train members to care for people in crisis or in need of general support.

Other congregations wanted help in beginning similar ministries and the movement snowballed.  Today Stephen Ministry is active in over 6000 congregations with over 400 being added every year.  Seventy-five denominations in 19 countries are represented.  We are the latest among six Episcopal Churches in the Atlanta area that have Stephen Ministry.  The others are: Christ Church (Norcross), Holy Innocents, St Catherine’s (Marietta), St. Patrick’s, and St Philip’s Cathedral.

If being a part of this ministry interests you, call Father Suthers at 404-228-0758 or one our Stephen Leaders  Kathy Evenson at 404-250-0174 or Jim Lynn at 404-843-0245 or Patsy Smith at 770-587-3697.  Talk to us.  Don’t wait.  The train is pulling out.  See if this is for you.  And, say, if you need help from a Stephen Minister, call us too.  Both sides of the Stephen Minister caring relationship are equally important!

 

 

STEPHEN MINISTERS AT WORK June 2000

 

We are pleased to report that we are in a Seven-Eleven situation right now. Seven of our eleven Stephen Ministers already have “Care Receivers.” But if you know someone (and we all know someone at times, someone in crisis, someone needing someone to talk to, someone to care) you can still help them. How do you do it?

     There are three easy steps:

(1) Listen and care for your friend in your own relationship together.

(2) Ask him or her for permission to report the need. Be sure to tell your friend that everything will be completely confidential.

(3) Report his or her need as promptly as possible. You can do this by calling Father Suthers directly at 404-228-0758. He will talk to your friend and will see if help from a Stephen Minister is appropriate and can be obtained.

     Hopefully soon all our Stephen Ministers will be at work. We are already looking toward the time when we will be needing more. If you have thought about being a Stephen Minister, talk to Father Suthers about this, too. We are planning to start a new class in October 2000.

 

The Parish Post – Oct. 10, 1999

 

A good group of people has applied to enroll in the Stephen Minister training course, and we are in the process of interviews.

Because of schedules, we have postponed the beginning of the course for two weeks. The first session will now be held in the Parlor at 7:00 p.m. on Tuesday, Nov. 2. If anyone has been wanting to apply, but has not yet done so, there is time to contact Father Suthers, Patsy Smith, Jim Lynn or Kathy Evenson.

Those who are not able to commit themselves to beginning 50 hours of training this year, but are interested in considering Stephen Ministry later, may sign up for a class beginning next fall.

The Stephen Series - “Why is this lay caring ministry system called the Stephen Series?”

Patsy Smith

From the Aug. 29th Parish Post…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Stephen Ministry – What Is It?

(from the Aug. 8 Parish Post)

 

As Father Suthers explained in a recent sermon at the commissioning of the Stephen Leaders, the Stephen Series is named for Stephen, whose story is told in the sixth chapter of the book of Acts.  The apostles, guided by the Holy Spirit, commissioned a group of individuals to work with them to do acts of caring ministry.  Stephen was one of those persons, one of the first lay people to be sent out to do caring ministry.  The Stephen Ministers are commissioned to do acts of caring, so it seemed appropriate for this ministry to be named in honor of Stephen.

On August 29th, there will be an opportunity to learn more about the Stephen Series and how it equips one to be part of Stephen Ministry.  Stephen Leaders will be at a table outside the church before and after the 10:00 a.m. service on this day.  We invite all who are interested in being part of one, among many, of our caring ministries at St. Martin’s to stop by.  There will be literature available and we hope to answer any questions or concerns you may have.  We also encourage all parishioners to find out how to become a part of this wonderful ministry and thank you for your interest and support.  Please join us as we ask for God’s continued guidance in this and all of our ministries here at St. Martins.  You are welcome to contact Kathy Evenson, Jim Lynn, Father Suthers or Patsy Smith at any time in regard to Stephen Ministry.

In closing, the Stephen Ministries Mission Statement is as follows:

The Mission of Stephen Ministries is to proclaim through word and deed the Gospel of Jesus Christ by nurturing, edifying, educating, and equipping the whole people of God who are called, gifted, and sent to be more effective servants who care for the needs of the whole person.

 

The mission statement above is particularly appropriate as we move into the process of recruiting, interviewing, and the selecting of Stephen Ministers who will be equipped through prayer and training ...“to be more effective servants who care for the needs of the whole person.”

Acts 6: 5 ..."and they chose Stephen, a man full of faith and of the Holy Spirit..." or Colossians 3:17, "And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him".

 

Stephen Ministry is a national organization, started in 1975, based in St. Louis.  It is Christian and non-denominational, serving almost 6000 congregations in all fifty states, seven Canadian provinces and seventeen other countries.  The organization in each congregation charges itself with providing distinctively Christian care to its members and community.  Trained and supervised lay persons minister to other lay persons; men minister to men and women minister to women.

 

At St. Martins, Cathy Evenson, Patsy Smith, Fr. Suthers and I have been trained as Stephen Leaders, whose responsibility it will be to administer this wonderful ministry.  From our parish, we will recruit and select lay people, who are willing to commit to two years of service.   We will then provide them with fifty hours of training in Christian caregiving.  Some of the training topics include listening, feelings, assertiveness, confidentiality, and ministering to people in specific situations such as divorce, terminal illness, grief, and childbirth.  Stephen Ministers also are trained to recognize when a care receiver’s needs go beyond the care a Stephen Minister can provide and where and how to refer the care receiver for additional care.

 

Following training, these lay persons are commissioned as Stephen Ministers and are linked with a certain care receiver – a member of the parish or community who is in need of quality Christian care.  Stephen Ministers then meet twice monthly for peer supervision and continuing education.

 

It is important to note that Stephen Ministers are not counselors.  They are trained Christian caregivers.  Their role is to listen and to care – not to counsel or advise.  Further, Stephen Ministry is a supervised ministry.  There are supervision sessions held twice each month to ensure that the care giving is the best quality for the care receivers.  Finally, Stephen Ministry is a confidential ministry.  What a care receiver tells a Stephen Minister remains confidential.  Even in supervision, the names of care receivers and specific details are never discussed.

 

“As each has received a gift, employ it for one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace.” 1 Peter 4:10.

 

Over the next few weeks, we will begin asking for those who are interested in serving in this ministry.  Our plan is to begin training sessions in the fall and be ready to commission our first Stephen Ministers in the spring.  If you have interest in this type of service, you may contact a member of the clergy or one of the Stephen Leaders.  In the meantime, we ask for your support and for your prayers for God’s guidance.

 

- Jim Lynn

Stephen Ministry arrives at St. Martin’s:

an introduction from Father Suthers

The July 25, 1999, Parish Post

 

Dear Members and Friends of St. Martin’s,

This year our parish decided to involve itself in a program of lay caring ministry. To do this, we have enrolled in the Stephen Series, a system developed by Stephen Ministries, a nonprofit religious and educational organization based in St. Louis. We will be developing a workable and lasting program of caring ministry through the Stephen Series system of training and organization.  This is a model of ministry which is already working in thousands of congregations throughout North America, equipping lay persons to minister to others who are in need.

As the first step in preparation for this ministry, Kathy Evenson, Jim Lynn, Patsy Smith and I attended a seven-day Stephen Series Leader’s Training Course in Seattle July 11-17. At this training course, we received the instruction and materials necessary for implementing and sustaining a program of lay caring ministry here at St. Martin’s.

The next step is to let you all know more about Stephen Ministry and to recruit a group of members of our congregation to undertake 50 hours of training in Christian caring skills under our guidance. This training will include topics that aid persons in caring for others, and will cover such areas as how to listen effectively, how to deal with feelings, how to use the traditional resources of Christianity in caring, how to maintain confidentiality, how to deal with persons experiencing crises, and many other areas of concern. The theology of caring and the whole person will be stressed throughout the training.

Upon completion of Stephen Series training, our lay Stephen Ministers will be commissioned into active caring ministries. These Stephen Ministers will work under supervision and will be available to care for persons experiencing challenges in their lives such as hospitalization, grief over the loss of a loved one, loneliness, divorce, loss of a job, birth of a child, and many other life events for which a person could benefit from an effective helping and caring ministry.

This will be an exciting time for St. Martin’s. This approach to lay caring ministry is a way to multiply both the amount of participation by lay persons in the healing ministry of Jesus Christ. If you have questions about this new form of ministry our congregation is undertaking or would like to consider this ministry for yourself, please feel free to talk with any of us on the leadership team. In the meantime, I would like you to keep Patsy, Kathy, Jim and me and our parish in your thoughts and prayers as we prepare for our lay caring ministry.

With God’s blessings,

Derwent A. Suthers